Sarah Gray was elated to learn she was pregnant with twins and then devastated when one of them was revealed to have anencephaly, a terminal condition. Adamant that their son's very short life would have meaning, she and her husband chose organ donation. He was born too small for his organs to be transplanted, so they decided on tissue donation for research purposes. As time went by, Gray wanted to know more; she visited the facilities that had received her son's tissue to find out more about the research they conducted and what they learned. In doing so, she was consoled and inspired to learn just how much her son had contributed to medical knowledge through this donation. This book is an absolute must for readers of The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, for everyone who's a registered organ donor, and especially for anyone who's not.
- Banna— From Banna's Recs
A donor mother’s powerful memoir of grief and rebirth that is also a fascinating medical science whodunit, taking us inside the world of organ, eye, tissue, and blood donation and cutting-edge scientific research.
When Sarah Gray received the devastating news that her unborn son Thomas was diagnosed with anencephaly, a terminal condition, she decided she wanted his death—and life—to have meaning. In the weeks before she gave birth to her twin sons in 2010, she arranged to donate Thomas’s organs. Due to his low birth weight, they would go to research rather than transplant. As transplant donors have the opportunity to meet recipients, Sarah wanted to know how Thomas's donation would be used.
That curiosity fueled a scientific odyssey that leads Sarah to some of the most prestigious scientific facilities in the country, including Harvard, Duke, and the University of Pennsylvania. Pulling back the curtain of protocol and confidentiality, she introduces the researchers who received Thomas’s donations, held his liver in their hands, studied his cells under the microscope.
Sarah’s journey to find solace and understanding takes her beyond her son’s donations—offering a breathtaking overview of the world of medical research and the valiant scientists on the horizon of discovery. She goes behind the scenes at organ procurement organizations, introducing skilled technicians for whom death means saving lives, empathetic counselors, and the brilliant minds who are finding surprising and inventive ways to treat and cure disease through these donations. She also shares the moving stories of other donor families.
A Life Everlasting is an unforgettable testament to hope, a tribute to life and discovery, and a portrait of unsung heroes pushing the boundaries of medical science for the benefit of all humanity.
About the Author
Sarah Gray is a donor parent; an organ, eye, tissue, and blood donation advocate; and a public speaker. She is the director of communications for the American Association of Tissue Banks (AATB) in McLean, Virginia, and regularly speaks around the country. She lives in Washington, DC, with her husband, Ross; their son, Callum; and their daughter, Jocelyn. SarahGray.com
“Both poignant and uplifting, A Life Everlasting is not just the story of Thomas Gray; it is also the story of researchers and donation facilitators. Most of all, it is a story of how science can give meaning to both life and death.”
— Science Magazine
“An informative account of the various aspects of organ donation and an inspiring affirmation of the potential value of every life, however brief. ”
— Kirkus Reviews
“Sarah Gray’s A Life Everlasting proves that it’s not tragedy that defines us; rather, it’s the way we handle tragedy that leaves an indelible imprint on the future.”
— Matthew Logelin, New York Times bestselling author of Two Kisses for Maddy
“Sarah Gray’s memoir chronicles her journey toward healing after her newborn son’s death, as well as her fascinating quest inside the world of organ, eye, and tissue donation. This lovely book is a reminder that even the shortest lives can make a big difference.”
— Anna Whiston-Donaldson, New York Times bestselling author of Rare Bird